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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 137805" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">I have to say that there have been many times over the years when I have truly felt that I hated my sister. She's loco and has no problem saying whatever pops into her head, not matter who it's about or how hurtful it is. My old counselor told me that based on what I had told her of my sister, she'd likely diagnose her with narcissistic pesonality disorder, which totally fits. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">Anyway, I hate that unsettled feeling in the pit of my stomach when I feel real harsh and very strong feelings of HATE for her. I wish I could stop it and in time it does wane, but when it's there, my God, it's like I want so desperately to squelch it, but cannot.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">I know how you feel.......I don't think my hating her alongside you will help, but I will send some good ju-ju that you're able to A) have the last word (and sometimes not engaging IS the last word) and B) you're able to back away from her (and possibly your family) for a while so you can collect yourself. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">It's insanity to engage with an insane person. There's an excellent book I read called, "Stop Walking on Eggshells" on how to deal with people like our sisters. It helped me a lot to not only confirm that it wasn't me, but also to detach from my sister in a way that was/is healthy for me. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: indigo">Sending hugs~ (and maybe just a little sympathy hate!)</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 137805, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]I have to say that there have been many times over the years when I have truly felt that I hated my sister. She's loco and has no problem saying whatever pops into her head, not matter who it's about or how hurtful it is. My old counselor told me that based on what I had told her of my sister, she'd likely diagnose her with narcissistic pesonality disorder, which totally fits. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]Anyway, I hate that unsettled feeling in the pit of my stomach when I feel real harsh and very strong feelings of HATE for her. I wish I could stop it and in time it does wane, but when it's there, my God, it's like I want so desperately to squelch it, but cannot.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]I know how you feel.......I don't think my hating her alongside you will help, but I will send some good ju-ju that you're able to A) have the last word (and sometimes not engaging IS the last word) and B) you're able to back away from her (and possibly your family) for a while so you can collect yourself. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]It's insanity to engage with an insane person. There's an excellent book I read called, "Stop Walking on Eggshells" on how to deal with people like our sisters. It helped me a lot to not only confirm that it wasn't me, but also to detach from my sister in a way that was/is healthy for me. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=indigo]Sending hugs~ (and maybe just a little sympathy hate!)[/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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