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<blockquote data-quote="Tryintocope" data-source="post: 698272" data-attributes="member: 20709"><p>Thank you, somewhereoutthere. I think you meant if we think she does have aspd? Yes, i will be careful. As much as i love her, i would send her out if she actually tried to hurt me. I have others i need to be here for too. I admit now that i can "see" im feeling kind of bad others in my life came second and third after the chaos. Im going to try to make up for that. But I'm going to try to get her to be more self sufficient so i know she can take care of herself. Her plan, as was ours, was for her to stay with us until she got thru community college (3 yrs from now, if all goes well), then transition her to campus housing at a 4 yr university for a bachelors degree. Then on her own. Thats if she gets thru community college. The ability is there. She sometimes lacks motivation and gets lazy and has "illnesses" that prevent her from attending. This will be a struggle, but unless i feel im in real danger, i want to try to see it thru. I want her to have a chance at a good life, if possible. Maybe the family therapy will help. The therapist has already called her out on some issues and she is finding out she cant fool everyone with charm, and her therapist has shown her- thru her questions -that she does see her manipulation tactics. And she did agree to attend anger management classes if i can find some close by for her. She knows she goes over the top when angry, and knows society wont accept that. She seems to want to succeed in life, and from being around her acquantances who have monied families, perhaps that will motivate her enough to finish school.she is driven by fine things and extravagances. If it gets her thru college, i say let her spend her salary afterward on whatever designer stuff she wants. At least i will know she can take care of herself then.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tryintocope, post: 698272, member: 20709"] Thank you, somewhereoutthere. I think you meant if we think she does have aspd? Yes, i will be careful. As much as i love her, i would send her out if she actually tried to hurt me. I have others i need to be here for too. I admit now that i can "see" im feeling kind of bad others in my life came second and third after the chaos. Im going to try to make up for that. But I'm going to try to get her to be more self sufficient so i know she can take care of herself. Her plan, as was ours, was for her to stay with us until she got thru community college (3 yrs from now, if all goes well), then transition her to campus housing at a 4 yr university for a bachelors degree. Then on her own. Thats if she gets thru community college. The ability is there. She sometimes lacks motivation and gets lazy and has "illnesses" that prevent her from attending. This will be a struggle, but unless i feel im in real danger, i want to try to see it thru. I want her to have a chance at a good life, if possible. Maybe the family therapy will help. The therapist has already called her out on some issues and she is finding out she cant fool everyone with charm, and her therapist has shown her- thru her questions -that she does see her manipulation tactics. And she did agree to attend anger management classes if i can find some close by for her. She knows she goes over the top when angry, and knows society wont accept that. She seems to want to succeed in life, and from being around her acquantances who have monied families, perhaps that will motivate her enough to finish school.she is driven by fine things and extravagances. If it gets her thru college, i say let her spend her salary afterward on whatever designer stuff she wants. At least i will know she can take care of herself then. [/QUOTE]
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