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I keep forgetting... the premise of "the rescuers" is that we, the parents, are evil!
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<blockquote data-quote="TheyAreLegallyAdultsNow" data-source="post: 331667" data-attributes="member: 8405"><p>Thanks slsh!!!! </p><p></p><p>Yes, I know the phenomena is not limited to adopted kids... and I also know not every adopted kid and their family experience this kind of junk. </p><p></p><p>Here's hugs for your heartaches!!! ((((((((((((( <3 )))))))))))))</p><p></p><p>Like you, I'm certain the kids true colors will show through... eventually. </p><p></p><p>It kind of has on a couple of small scale levels... but the mastermind brilliant young adults have turned it around to "see what those horrid parents have turned me into!!!" ...which the "rescue rangers" are currently eating up with a spoon. </p><p></p><p>I know it is mental illness that is the monster here... not the parents, not the "adult" kids, not even the clueless people who are in rescue mode believing they are helping when they are really feeding "the beast." </p><p></p><p>We had 10 (middle) beautiful years (out of 15) that helps us hold on to hope that beauty will again return to our relationship. </p><p> </p><p>In the meantime we pray for the "kids" (and the people who have surrounded them in rescue mode) regularly. We're trusting God because He alone is faithful!</p><p></p><p>For now my husband and I are focusing on our beautiful future together. We were only ever supposed to "have" our kids to raise them for a few short years, and to love them for a lifetime. We have completed the first part with excellence. </p><p></p><p>We are committed to love them... for now it is from a distance... for our own safety.</p><p></p><p>This is our happily ever after. I won't allow them to steal that from us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TheyAreLegallyAdultsNow, post: 331667, member: 8405"] Thanks slsh!!!! Yes, I know the phenomena is not limited to adopted kids... and I also know not every adopted kid and their family experience this kind of junk. Here's hugs for your heartaches!!! ((((((((((((( <3 ))))))))))))) Like you, I'm certain the kids true colors will show through... eventually. It kind of has on a couple of small scale levels... but the mastermind brilliant young adults have turned it around to "see what those horrid parents have turned me into!!!" ...which the "rescue rangers" are currently eating up with a spoon. I know it is mental illness that is the monster here... not the parents, not the "adult" kids, not even the clueless people who are in rescue mode believing they are helping when they are really feeding "the beast." We had 10 (middle) beautiful years (out of 15) that helps us hold on to hope that beauty will again return to our relationship. In the meantime we pray for the "kids" (and the people who have surrounded them in rescue mode) regularly. We're trusting God because He alone is faithful! For now my husband and I are focusing on our beautiful future together. We were only ever supposed to "have" our kids to raise them for a few short years, and to love them for a lifetime. We have completed the first part with excellence. We are committed to love them... for now it is from a distance... for our own safety. This is our happily ever after. I won't allow them to steal that from us. [/QUOTE]
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