when my son was 8 i met a man and got married but the man used to say horrible vile things to me till i had enough and left and moved into a womans refuge .that was 3 years ago but my son for the last 3 years has given me hell calling me vile names for past 3 years (one being a C word ) .he has also stole of me .1st he stole my moblie phone and rang up a bill of 300 quid the last straw was nearly 2 weeks ago he stole 20 quid of me and denied it .he had brought booze and weed with it.so i called police he was arrested but let off with a caution.since then he had kicked a hole in my fence (twice ) kicking my door broke my doorbell and thearten me saying he is going to smash all the windows in etc.i have called the police out nearly 9 times but each time he gets arrested he is let of with a caution and comes straight back to mine damaging things and threating me . i was so heartless when i kicked him out i spend hours trying to find him some where to live but every time he had to go for a interview to get a room he refused to go then he say to me i got no where to live iam hungry cold etc trying to make me feel gulity. the thing is he could have some where to live but he refuses any help of anyone and then comes to my door every day still thinking iam a mug whos gonna let him back in. Iam so sick of all this and so stressed i go to work feeling distressed and sad. iam fed up that someone who is supposed to be my son wld call me vile names ,steal of me and give me 24h hell and now causes me harrasent and stress. he says the police are no good and are stupid because all they do is arrest him and they let him go. I WILL NEVER HAVE HIM LIVE WITH ME AGAIN me and my daughter can have a peaceful life at last but i still feel like i failed as a mother HE IS 18 YEARS OLD nearly 18 and a half.