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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 655050" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>It is. I have not seen it in this way, before. That is a very important lesson. Here is my question: Aren't we supposed, for the good of everyone and all the generations and etc, to love and to forgive and to stay steady state and do the best we know if we are the ones who can see the patterns and where they are going?</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Maybe that is where I am going with sifting through all this, again. When I did it the first thousand times ((( :O) ))) I wrapped it all up very differently.</p><p></p><p>See above.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>That is a stumbling point for me: Shouldn't I be more open, more loving, more kind. How are we all ever going to make our ways out of this if everyone is rigidly encased in roles that were toxic to begin with?!?</p><p></p><p>But that way didn't work, either.</p><p></p><p>It is all confusing to me, still.</p><p></p><p>But I like that she said, "None of this is wrong."</p><p></p><p>I do feel like thinking the way I have been lately is wrong. But I also feel the way I was thinking before was wrong. I feel so differently toward them since the way they responded to what happened to my daughter.</p><p></p><p>And to my son too, now that I think about it.</p><p></p><p>They seem not to be remotely who I believed them to be.</p><p></p><p>I think this lady who emailed you was on the right path. None of this is wrong. Surely the other adults in this toxic mix have a responsibility, too, <em>if they want to see this changed.</em></p><p></p><p>Maybe that is the key.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Well, that's kind of what I think I mean. If we don't change things, who will?</p><p></p><p>Except that things only seem to be getting worse.</p><p></p><p>So, there's that.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I do, too. Thank you for sharing it with us.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 655050, member: 17461"] It is. I have not seen it in this way, before. That is a very important lesson. Here is my question: Aren't we supposed, for the good of everyone and all the generations and etc, to love and to forgive and to stay steady state and do the best we know if we are the ones who can see the patterns and where they are going? Maybe that is where I am going with sifting through all this, again. When I did it the first thousand times ((( :O) ))) I wrapped it all up very differently. See above. That is a stumbling point for me: Shouldn't I be more open, more loving, more kind. How are we all ever going to make our ways out of this if everyone is rigidly encased in roles that were toxic to begin with?!? But that way didn't work, either. It is all confusing to me, still. But I like that she said, "None of this is wrong." I do feel like thinking the way I have been lately is wrong. But I also feel the way I was thinking before was wrong. I feel so differently toward them since the way they responded to what happened to my daughter. And to my son too, now that I think about it. They seem not to be remotely who I believed them to be. I think this lady who emailed you was on the right path. None of this is wrong. Surely the other adults in this toxic mix have a responsibility, too, [I]if they want to see this changed.[/I] Maybe that is the key. Well, that's kind of what I think I mean. If we don't change things, who will? Except that things only seem to be getting worse. So, there's that. I do, too. Thank you for sharing it with us. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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