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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 221314" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>wow this opens up a whole other conversation altogether!!</p><p> </p><p>well as far as difficult child goes there are some transitions this jan. for her. the play for one which now she's desperately looking to get out of. She finally stopped bouncing last night once I told her it's ok i am still proud of you if we cant' figure out a way together to make this work for you. She fell off around 1 a.m. i'm beginning work in jan. i'm also throwing her into babysitting with previous sitter in jan. a few days here and there while i'm training. hmm should be interesting. I am going to give it one more try with the co. to see if we can make some provisions so difficult child can handle this. i'm going later today.</p><p> </p><p>Rotsne - hi, welcome i dont' think i've seen you before. I"m saddened to hear how your society functions, and was unaware of this as well. As far as my difficult child is concerned she is not a teenager, she is only 9 right now. So, although I agree that sometimes they need to have us step in and make decision for them, it is also important to push them to an extent so they can reach their full potential. Yet determining where that fine line is drawn between pushing too hard and not is hard to see at times.</p><p> </p><p>Regardless of your religion whatever that may be, life comes with options and opportunities and enjoyment. Singing and dancing is simply an expression of ones self and often many can derive great pleasure from expressing themselves that way, yet I respect your point in regards to your beliefs. I think we try to stay away from religious issues here to an extent. Mod's correct me if i'm wrong. </p><p> </p><p>It is the same here in the u.s. right now, our economy is suffering as with many other countries i'm quite sure. Our children suffer similar dilemna's in regards to student loans, and than ofcourse struggling to pay them off, and as of late I have heard of many young adults, not just difficult child's staying home longer to achieve being able to complete their educations, begin paying off their loans, and surviving it alone out in the world. Unrealistic dreams I am not sure I agree with that one. I think that given the right time and situation and determination anyone can do anything they so dream. Yet I do not know if my own difficult child is ready for this challenge just yet, it may be too soon. Regarding your difficult child i am glad that you made the right choice for her and that she is pleased by that choice. difficult child being happy at the end of the day is what's most important.</p><p> </p><p>Thanks for your words and also for sharing. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> and welcome again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 221314, member: 4514"] wow this opens up a whole other conversation altogether!! well as far as difficult child goes there are some transitions this jan. for her. the play for one which now she's desperately looking to get out of. She finally stopped bouncing last night once I told her it's ok i am still proud of you if we cant' figure out a way together to make this work for you. She fell off around 1 a.m. i'm beginning work in jan. i'm also throwing her into babysitting with previous sitter in jan. a few days here and there while i'm training. hmm should be interesting. I am going to give it one more try with the co. to see if we can make some provisions so difficult child can handle this. i'm going later today. Rotsne - hi, welcome i dont' think i've seen you before. I"m saddened to hear how your society functions, and was unaware of this as well. As far as my difficult child is concerned she is not a teenager, she is only 9 right now. So, although I agree that sometimes they need to have us step in and make decision for them, it is also important to push them to an extent so they can reach their full potential. Yet determining where that fine line is drawn between pushing too hard and not is hard to see at times. Regardless of your religion whatever that may be, life comes with options and opportunities and enjoyment. Singing and dancing is simply an expression of ones self and often many can derive great pleasure from expressing themselves that way, yet I respect your point in regards to your beliefs. I think we try to stay away from religious issues here to an extent. Mod's correct me if i'm wrong. It is the same here in the u.s. right now, our economy is suffering as with many other countries i'm quite sure. Our children suffer similar dilemna's in regards to student loans, and than ofcourse struggling to pay them off, and as of late I have heard of many young adults, not just difficult child's staying home longer to achieve being able to complete their educations, begin paying off their loans, and surviving it alone out in the world. Unrealistic dreams I am not sure I agree with that one. I think that given the right time and situation and determination anyone can do anything they so dream. Yet I do not know if my own difficult child is ready for this challenge just yet, it may be too soon. Regarding your difficult child i am glad that you made the right choice for her and that she is pleased by that choice. difficult child being happy at the end of the day is what's most important. Thanks for your words and also for sharing. :) and welcome again. [/QUOTE]
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