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I messed up, fiance moved out and now I don't know what to do
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<blockquote data-quote="myeverything04" data-source="post: 499937" data-attributes="member: 13522"><p>No, my fiance is not allergic to ferrets. I have always felt guilty for being the one to ask for a divorce with difficult child's dad and often do 'impulse' things that I know will make her happy. I wasn't thinking about my fiances breathing issues or the fact that he has supported us for the past 2 years while I finished school. I have been so engolfed in difficult child's issues lately that I haven't thought about anything or anyone but her so I wasn't thinking straight about my decision to go pick this ferret up. I wasn't at all thinking about what was best for my family as a whole. I also have an animal problem, which a past therapist suggested may be my way of trying fix or 'plug' an empty void in my life. This isn't an excuse but I'm just throwing it out there to give a little more insight into my situation.</p><p>I realize I have made a HUGE mistake and I'm not sure if even taking the ferret back will fix any of it. I do love my fiance but often feel like we have little communication or can't even have a conversation about anything because one of us always thinks the other is trying to argue when in fact they are just talking. He came from a very "do it or else" type of family where both parents worked to make ends meat and my upbringing was a lot different, with a stay at home mom and father that made good money. I think this has played a role in how our opinions differ with the way parent my daughter. Non the less, I made a mistake and need to try to fix it. I'm sorry for bring this to the board but I had no one else to talk to last night and this is one place I feel I get good, sound advice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="myeverything04, post: 499937, member: 13522"] No, my fiance is not allergic to ferrets. I have always felt guilty for being the one to ask for a divorce with difficult child's dad and often do 'impulse' things that I know will make her happy. I wasn't thinking about my fiances breathing issues or the fact that he has supported us for the past 2 years while I finished school. I have been so engolfed in difficult child's issues lately that I haven't thought about anything or anyone but her so I wasn't thinking straight about my decision to go pick this ferret up. I wasn't at all thinking about what was best for my family as a whole. I also have an animal problem, which a past therapist suggested may be my way of trying fix or 'plug' an empty void in my life. This isn't an excuse but I'm just throwing it out there to give a little more insight into my situation. I realize I have made a HUGE mistake and I'm not sure if even taking the ferret back will fix any of it. I do love my fiance but often feel like we have little communication or can't even have a conversation about anything because one of us always thinks the other is trying to argue when in fact they are just talking. He came from a very "do it or else" type of family where both parents worked to make ends meat and my upbringing was a lot different, with a stay at home mom and father that made good money. I think this has played a role in how our opinions differ with the way parent my daughter. Non the less, I made a mistake and need to try to fix it. I'm sorry for bring this to the board but I had no one else to talk to last night and this is one place I feel I get good, sound advice. [/QUOTE]
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