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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 679011" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is a temporary fix at best to my way of thinking.</p><p></p><p>As long as your daughter chooses to expose her child to this dangerous situation, this will continue. Like a revolving door. If she is asserting that there are dangerous things happening, I would believe her. The only way to deal with this is to call the authorities every single time. That is the only way there will be a record so that the child can be protected.</p><p></p><p>I would think about whether taking the child, who will soon return to the same dangerous environment, is protecting the child or enabling your daughter to continue as she has been doing. If your daughter consistently chooses to participate in havoc and drama, that she herself is describing as dangerous, the child is danger, and will return to a dangerous situation, that over time, will get worse. </p><p></p><p>Taking the child away for a night or couple of days--is it really a solution?</p><p></p><p>Only the authorities can protect the child. Unless your daughter gives <em>legal custody</em> to a family member who is able to alternatively parent the child.</p><p></p><p>Of course your feelings in this are important, but more pressing is that the child be protected.</p><p></p><p>You might want to post to enlist ideas and support for how to handle this the the next time. Because <em>there will be a next time</em>. All this child seems to have is you and your other children. To my way of thinking a more permanent solution needs to be thought of, if this child is living in risk.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 679011, member: 18958"] This is a temporary fix at best to my way of thinking. As long as your daughter chooses to expose her child to this dangerous situation, this will continue. Like a revolving door. If she is asserting that there are dangerous things happening, I would believe her. The only way to deal with this is to call the authorities every single time. That is the only way there will be a record so that the child can be protected. I would think about whether taking the child, who will soon return to the same dangerous environment, is protecting the child or enabling your daughter to continue as she has been doing. If your daughter consistently chooses to participate in havoc and drama, that she herself is describing as dangerous, the child is danger, and will return to a dangerous situation, that over time, will get worse. Taking the child away for a night or couple of days--is it really a solution? Only the authorities can protect the child. Unless your daughter gives [I]legal custody[/I] to a family member who is able to alternatively parent the child. Of course your feelings in this are important, but more pressing is that the child be protected. You might want to post to enlist ideas and support for how to handle this the the next time. Because [I]there will be a next time[/I]. All this child seems to have is you and your other children. To my way of thinking a more permanent solution needs to be thought of, if this child is living in risk. COPA [/QUOTE]
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