rejectedmom
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easy child was in an accident on his way home for his driving route today. He still isn't back here yet but I talked to him on the phone and he says he is OK but he just doesn't sound right. I am sure he is worrried and apprehensive. I do not know if he was at fault or not but either way it will affect his job. This is the second accident he has had in just over a year. I am pretty sure he will be laid off as a result. That is how this company works. I am ok with him being taken off route sales and given an indoor job but I don't think that is what will happen. easy child won't like that anyway as it won't pay but minimum wage and he has been making a decent salary for a while now. He is a very high functioning Aspie and thought very intelligent he just doesn't do well socially and in interviews.
sThe other concern I have is that he is not in tuned with his body. From past experience I know that even if hurt won't seek medical assistance. So here is my problem... I am suposed to leave at 5am for my nephew's wedding and will be gone for a few days. There will be no one here to moniter my easy child for injury and/or depression. I want to just cancel my trip but husband doesn't think that is a good idea. My gut is saying don't go but my head is saying the opposite. I will loose money on my tickets but that is OK My sisters and my family will be angry since I am supossed to pay a percent of the rental for the condo we are staying in. JUst not sure what to do and need to make a decision within a few hours. -RM
sThe other concern I have is that he is not in tuned with his body. From past experience I know that even if hurt won't seek medical assistance. So here is my problem... I am suposed to leave at 5am for my nephew's wedding and will be gone for a few days. There will be no one here to moniter my easy child for injury and/or depression. I want to just cancel my trip but husband doesn't think that is a good idea. My gut is saying don't go but my head is saying the opposite. I will loose money on my tickets but that is OK My sisters and my family will be angry since I am supossed to pay a percent of the rental for the condo we are staying in. JUst not sure what to do and need to make a decision within a few hours. -RM
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