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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 449942" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>I apologize in advance since I don't know your story and I may be way off the mark but I think a little sensitivity is required here. She feels abandoned but she hasn't really contacted you for a long time. So she talks a good game.</p><p> I would call her and tell her that you have thought about it and decided you wanted to live in an area that gives you some better opportunities.(don't say it's for your son- sibling rivalry will rear it's head). Tell her when you will be moving and that you would like for her to visit in the future when she is feeling less gfgish. </p><p>Although 18 is considered an adult in the eyes of the law there are very few 18yr olds who are mature enough and adult enough to respond like someone who is 25. Even easy child's today are not that mature at 18. </p><p>Use your mother vibe to see how best to handle your choice so that A) she doesn't feel like you turned away from her and B) that she feels that someday when she isn't quite so difficult child ish that she would be welcome back into your home.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 449942, member: 3"] I apologize in advance since I don't know your story and I may be way off the mark but I think a little sensitivity is required here. She feels abandoned but she hasn't really contacted you for a long time. So she talks a good game. I would call her and tell her that you have thought about it and decided you wanted to live in an area that gives you some better opportunities.(don't say it's for your son- sibling rivalry will rear it's head). Tell her when you will be moving and that you would like for her to visit in the future when she is feeling less gfgish. Although 18 is considered an adult in the eyes of the law there are very few 18yr olds who are mature enough and adult enough to respond like someone who is 25. Even easy child's today are not that mature at 18. Use your mother vibe to see how best to handle your choice so that A) she doesn't feel like you turned away from her and B) that she feels that someday when she isn't quite so difficult child ish that she would be welcome back into your home. [/QUOTE]
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