Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
I need advice, please
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 449952"><p>I agree no gut wrenching letter time. What you want is to keep the door open for the future. She may be rejecting now but that may change in the future when she has done some work on herself and you want the door open so that she feels free to come to you when she is ready. So I would let her now you love her, think about her, and that you are moving to a better area but you hope she will keep in touch, that you would love to see her when she is ready. </p><p></p><p>I think the mode of communication depends.... certainly a telephone call is best in theory and if you can do that and think she will take your call and be receptive then I agree that is the best choice. However I know when things have been bad with my difficult child text messages take the sting out, the emotion out for both of us and some of our best communications have been over texts.... so if you feel like the relationship is in a state where a phone call will be too hard for both of you then text her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 449952"] I agree no gut wrenching letter time. What you want is to keep the door open for the future. She may be rejecting now but that may change in the future when she has done some work on herself and you want the door open so that she feels free to come to you when she is ready. So I would let her now you love her, think about her, and that you are moving to a better area but you hope she will keep in touch, that you would love to see her when she is ready. I think the mode of communication depends.... certainly a telephone call is best in theory and if you can do that and think she will take your call and be receptive then I agree that is the best choice. However I know when things have been bad with my difficult child text messages take the sting out, the emotion out for both of us and some of our best communications have been over texts.... so if you feel like the relationship is in a state where a phone call will be too hard for both of you then text her. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
I need advice, please
Top