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<blockquote data-quote="Rotsne" data-source="post: 232222" data-attributes="member: 6326"><p>For more than 15 year did my mother travel down to my brothers place and cleaned his home. He smoked various stuff and heard voices. He has been on medication for this since he was 18 years old. Regardless of her help he wasn't always nice against her.</p><p> </p><p>But the fact was that she enabled him to remain a teen.</p><p> </p><p>He was almost 40 years old before he understood that he had to quit his drug use and step up as an adult.</p><p> </p><p>I have never told my mother what to do. Like your parents, she had a son she cared for and it was her choice. I have to acknowledge that I choosed to distance myself from their relationship because I didn't wanted to be compensated for her guilt due to all the time she used on my brother. I have always been proud about taking care of myself.</p><p> </p><p>The fact is that you can do nothing. There is no stronger things in the world than a parents love for his or her child.</p><p> </p><p>But maybe you can manipulate them. We have some safe countries in Scandiavia. We also have cheap hostels and a scanrail card, where you can travel around the Nordic countries on pre-paid train-tickets. Would she take an offer for 21 days traveling around with a bagpack and can they afford the ticket?</p><p> </p><p>She is stuck in her abusive life and needs to get away. I don't know if she is still suffering from the panic attacks. I live with a person suffering from panic attacks and when she gets one, she cannot not even fetch the mail from the mailbox, so going to a bar is totally out of the question. I think that she are cured and needs to live without medication. She don't sound as a person suffering from panic attacks to me. Try to speak to her doctor. Maybe he can instruct the pharmacy to give her a placebo product so she can detox.</p><p> </p><p>Second best option but still expensive is to offering her some outward bound. Because she properly would remain in her house and she is an adult which can leave at own request some needs to travel with her to encourge her through her stay.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rotsne, post: 232222, member: 6326"] For more than 15 year did my mother travel down to my brothers place and cleaned his home. He smoked various stuff and heard voices. He has been on medication for this since he was 18 years old. Regardless of her help he wasn't always nice against her. But the fact was that she enabled him to remain a teen. He was almost 40 years old before he understood that he had to quit his drug use and step up as an adult. I have never told my mother what to do. Like your parents, she had a son she cared for and it was her choice. I have to acknowledge that I choosed to distance myself from their relationship because I didn't wanted to be compensated for her guilt due to all the time she used on my brother. I have always been proud about taking care of myself. The fact is that you can do nothing. There is no stronger things in the world than a parents love for his or her child. But maybe you can manipulate them. We have some safe countries in Scandiavia. We also have cheap hostels and a scanrail card, where you can travel around the Nordic countries on pre-paid train-tickets. Would she take an offer for 21 days traveling around with a bagpack and can they afford the ticket? She is stuck in her abusive life and needs to get away. I don't know if she is still suffering from the panic attacks. I live with a person suffering from panic attacks and when she gets one, she cannot not even fetch the mail from the mailbox, so going to a bar is totally out of the question. I think that she are cured and needs to live without medication. She don't sound as a person suffering from panic attacks to me. Try to speak to her doctor. Maybe he can instruct the pharmacy to give her a placebo product so she can detox. Second best option but still expensive is to offering her some outward bound. Because she properly would remain in her house and she is an adult which can leave at own request some needs to travel with her to encourge her through her stay. [/QUOTE]
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