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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 397932" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Do you know if your dad went through a lawyer or attorney firm to create the will? If you know which one, you may try calling them and asking if a time and place has been set up for the reading of the will. Let them know that as his only child you would like to make sure they have your correct address to send the notification to.</p><p> </p><p>Have you had a good relation with his wife so that you can approach her with something like, "What a month this has been! You are handling things so well. Is there anything I can help go through? Anything from my childhood that I can see? Have you had a chance to set up the date and time for the reading of the will? Do you have everyone's address and contact information that should be there?"</p><p> </p><p>Or, "I know you are very busy with all of this. There is no easy way to ask this, but I know in conversations with Dad that there are certain items he wanted each of us to have. They are things that have deep sentimental values to us. Would you mind if I discussed these items with you or will they be amongst the items in the Reading of the Will? Have you had a chance to set up a date and time for the Reading of the Will? Do you have all the contact information for those who should be there?"</p><p> </p><p>Is there a person other than your mom representing the estate? You could ask that person for details on the CD's and ask if there is anything else set up in your name that you should know about.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 397932, member: 5096"] Do you know if your dad went through a lawyer or attorney firm to create the will? If you know which one, you may try calling them and asking if a time and place has been set up for the reading of the will. Let them know that as his only child you would like to make sure they have your correct address to send the notification to. Have you had a good relation with his wife so that you can approach her with something like, "What a month this has been! You are handling things so well. Is there anything I can help go through? Anything from my childhood that I can see? Have you had a chance to set up the date and time for the reading of the will? Do you have everyone's address and contact information that should be there?" Or, "I know you are very busy with all of this. There is no easy way to ask this, but I know in conversations with Dad that there are certain items he wanted each of us to have. They are things that have deep sentimental values to us. Would you mind if I discussed these items with you or will they be amongst the items in the Reading of the Will? Have you had a chance to set up a date and time for the Reading of the Will? Do you have all the contact information for those who should be there?" Is there a person other than your mom representing the estate? You could ask that person for details on the CD's and ask if there is anything else set up in your name that you should know about. [/QUOTE]
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