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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 397966" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Honestly? If it were me, I'd just ask. I'm not sure this is really any set procedure for this sort of thing. And since you're his only child it is only right that you ask about such things. </p><p></p><p>If you're in the will you should be contacted to attend the reading of the will. At least that has always been my understanding of it. We didn't go through that with mother in law because by the time she passed all money was gone and she'd already made sure everyone had gotten what was stated in the will they would get since we sold the house ect.</p><p></p><p>It's not out of place for you to ask such things. Awkward or not. </p><p></p><p>Vultures are my step sibs who snuck into the house and snitched away stuff while my mom was trying to make funeral arrangements........and who emptied bank accounts ect before she could get to the bank.........Wouldn't have bothered any of us near as much as it did if they'd kept their hands off the college funds my step dad set up for ALL of the grandchildren (his and my moms). ugh Now those are vultures.</p><p></p><p>But I don't know much about etiquette. husband didn't receive most of what he was supposed to get from his dad............simply because he would not open his mouth and ask, so his brother thought he didn't want it and took it for himself. </p><p></p><p>((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 397966, member: 84"] Honestly? If it were me, I'd just ask. I'm not sure this is really any set procedure for this sort of thing. And since you're his only child it is only right that you ask about such things. If you're in the will you should be contacted to attend the reading of the will. At least that has always been my understanding of it. We didn't go through that with mother in law because by the time she passed all money was gone and she'd already made sure everyone had gotten what was stated in the will they would get since we sold the house ect. It's not out of place for you to ask such things. Awkward or not. Vultures are my step sibs who snuck into the house and snitched away stuff while my mom was trying to make funeral arrangements........and who emptied bank accounts ect before she could get to the bank.........Wouldn't have bothered any of us near as much as it did if they'd kept their hands off the college funds my step dad set up for ALL of the grandchildren (his and my moms). ugh Now those are vultures. But I don't know much about etiquette. husband didn't receive most of what he was supposed to get from his dad............simply because he would not open his mouth and ask, so his brother thought he didn't want it and took it for himself. ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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