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I need suggestions!! 5 year old in a fight at daycare. @ days before Halloween!!
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 559450" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Well definitely dont take Halloween away. I had a friend that did that to her kids while I was the sitter and it broke my heart to do it. </p><p></p><p>Sounds to me like he is in high anxiety mode too. What happened at the other daycare where he was bullied badly? How long did it go on and how was he bullied? As a little guy he probably didnt know how to use his words well to tell what was really happening so he had to build up some bad coping skills. </p><p></p><p>All this isnt going to help the immediate problem of him misbehaving now but I would look into finding him a good child therapist who uses play therapy. He isnt old enough for talk therapy yet. I do think the charts are probably a really good idea if you can get him to buy into them. </p><p></p><p>I am proposing all this on the supposition that he doesnt have any major mental health issues. 123 Magic is a good book for kids his age. If you and his teachers are on the same page about making sure he has the same discipline at school and at home for what he is doing that should help too. If he attempts to bolt out the door quite often maybe you could ask the school about having an aide with him or if his class has an aide, having her always keeping a very close eye on him when he seems to get upset.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 559450, member: 1514"] Well definitely dont take Halloween away. I had a friend that did that to her kids while I was the sitter and it broke my heart to do it. Sounds to me like he is in high anxiety mode too. What happened at the other daycare where he was bullied badly? How long did it go on and how was he bullied? As a little guy he probably didnt know how to use his words well to tell what was really happening so he had to build up some bad coping skills. All this isnt going to help the immediate problem of him misbehaving now but I would look into finding him a good child therapist who uses play therapy. He isnt old enough for talk therapy yet. I do think the charts are probably a really good idea if you can get him to buy into them. I am proposing all this on the supposition that he doesnt have any major mental health issues. 123 Magic is a good book for kids his age. If you and his teachers are on the same page about making sure he has the same discipline at school and at home for what he is doing that should help too. If he attempts to bolt out the door quite often maybe you could ask the school about having an aide with him or if his class has an aide, having her always keeping a very close eye on him when he seems to get upset. [/QUOTE]
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