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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 401326" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Terry--</p><p> </p><p>Yikes! I agree with some of the other reposnses - I don't see Aspie at all, but would not be surprised to learn that A is bi-polar or schizophrenic or some combination thereof...</p><p> </p><p>I also thought "drugs" - there is no logical reason in the world A would need to ride on a different place and certainly no reason to take $1200 from the group. If there was some true emergency - I could see asking for the money...(and then making arrangement to pay it back!)...but the way you described it? It's theft - pure and simple.</p><p> </p><p>I'm not sure you need to even discuss the possible mental health aspects - as much as you need to address the safety issues. Falling asleep at the wheel could have killed everyone in the car. Staying up all night fasting before heading out into unfamiliar territory could have led to accidents and serious injuries. Having the leader fly separately meant he was not available if something had happened during the flight. Having the group travel abroad with "insufficient funds" leaves the group vulnerable if the unexpected should arise. </p><p> </p><p>I think you should approach this as though you were bringing your concerns to the group's management - not as though you are "telling parents about their child's behavior"...</p><p> </p><p>Let us know how it goes!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 401326, member: 6546"] Terry-- Yikes! I agree with some of the other reposnses - I don't see Aspie at all, but would not be surprised to learn that A is bi-polar or schizophrenic or some combination thereof... I also thought "drugs" - there is no logical reason in the world A would need to ride on a different place and certainly no reason to take $1200 from the group. If there was some true emergency - I could see asking for the money...(and then making arrangement to pay it back!)...but the way you described it? It's theft - pure and simple. I'm not sure you need to even discuss the possible mental health aspects - as much as you need to address the safety issues. Falling asleep at the wheel could have killed everyone in the car. Staying up all night fasting before heading out into unfamiliar territory could have led to accidents and serious injuries. Having the leader fly separately meant he was not available if something had happened during the flight. Having the group travel abroad with "insufficient funds" leaves the group vulnerable if the unexpected should arise. I think you should approach this as though you were bringing your concerns to the group's management - not as though you are "telling parents about their child's behavior"... Let us know how it goes! [/QUOTE]
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