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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 86191" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>My bff Jill wanted to ask him the other day if he should go for a catscan or something because she thinks maybe he has a brain tumor :hammer:</p><p></p><p>He stopped by to see her and as he's telling her how he wants nothing more then to save our marriage and hopes someday I can forgive him, and then starts asking her if she see's this girl Judy who lives down the street from her ever and if she does to let her know he's seperated!!!! This is a girl who he went to school with and he knows she's divorced. This is so difficult for me because she tells me these things that I want to confront him about, but I can't because then he'll know she's telling me everything he tells her. He also told her about something that happened around 5 years ago while I was in Maryland with the kids. Apparentley he met some girl in a bar and she gave him oral sex. Jill said she couldn't believe he was telling her these things, but he in the same breath keeps saying this affair was the first time anything like this has ever happened and then asking about the girl down the street. Jill is usually very good at comebacks and setting people straight when they contradict themselves, but she said most of the time he just leaves her speechless.</p><p></p><p>I will eventually find a way to bring all of these things to his attention, without letting him know where I heard it from. I guess the important this is that I know and it makes my decision to move out even easier. </p><p></p><p>I know this sounds like highschool stuff, and perhaps Jill should stop letting him confide in her, but I think I would be missing a lot of what he's really doing if he stopped. Are guys that dumb? Sorry... hope I didn't offend anyone, but really, I think he really believes she isn't telling me any of these things.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 86191, member: 2442"] My bff Jill wanted to ask him the other day if he should go for a catscan or something because she thinks maybe he has a brain tumor [img]:hammer:[/img] He stopped by to see her and as he's telling her how he wants nothing more then to save our marriage and hopes someday I can forgive him, and then starts asking her if she see's this girl Judy who lives down the street from her ever and if she does to let her know he's seperated!!!! This is a girl who he went to school with and he knows she's divorced. This is so difficult for me because she tells me these things that I want to confront him about, but I can't because then he'll know she's telling me everything he tells her. He also told her about something that happened around 5 years ago while I was in Maryland with the kids. Apparentley he met some girl in a bar and she gave him oral sex. Jill said she couldn't believe he was telling her these things, but he in the same breath keeps saying this affair was the first time anything like this has ever happened and then asking about the girl down the street. Jill is usually very good at comebacks and setting people straight when they contradict themselves, but she said most of the time he just leaves her speechless. I will eventually find a way to bring all of these things to his attention, without letting him know where I heard it from. I guess the important this is that I know and it makes my decision to move out even easier. I know this sounds like highschool stuff, and perhaps Jill should stop letting him confide in her, but I think I would be missing a lot of what he's really doing if he stopped. Are guys that dumb? Sorry... hope I didn't offend anyone, but really, I think he really believes she isn't telling me any of these things. [/QUOTE]
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