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I really don't want to do this anymore !!!!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Kalahou" data-source="post: 677073" data-attributes="member: 19617"><p>So Tired,</p><p>I am following along with your post. You are not alone. I understand the tiredness. Re-read the article of detachment and take one day at a time taking care of yourself. Everyday I have to remind myself how to stay sane and peaceful and reaffirm the benefits of detachment. I have young grandchildren also, but even with them, I must realize I cannot be responsible for them, and have no authority and control over all the times of their lives. I have learned and must continue to remind myself to:</p><p>· Stop trying to fix someone else’s problems</p><p>· Stop trying to encourage change in someone who doesn’t want to change.</p><p>· Stop giving repeated chances to someone who abuses/takes advantage of forgiveness and support.</p><p>· Stop trusting nice-sounding words (often lies) while ignoring/tolerating destructive actions.</p><p>· Stop giving my strength and effort toward a relationship that isn’t reciprocated.</p><p></p><p>Take care dear. We understand. <em>You are going to be alright.</em> Day by day. A new day. <em>Kalahou</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kalahou, post: 677073, member: 19617"] So Tired, I am following along with your post. You are not alone. I understand the tiredness. Re-read the article of detachment and take one day at a time taking care of yourself. Everyday I have to remind myself how to stay sane and peaceful and reaffirm the benefits of detachment. I have young grandchildren also, but even with them, I must realize I cannot be responsible for them, and have no authority and control over all the times of their lives. I have learned and must continue to remind myself to: · Stop trying to fix someone else’s problems · Stop trying to encourage change in someone who doesn’t want to change. · Stop giving repeated chances to someone who abuses/takes advantage of forgiveness and support. · Stop trusting nice-sounding words (often lies) while ignoring/tolerating destructive actions. · Stop giving my strength and effort toward a relationship that isn’t reciprocated. Take care dear. We understand. [I]You are going to be alright.[/I] Day by day. A new day. [I]Kalahou[/I] [/QUOTE]
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