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I so can't deal with this right now...
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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 374690" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>In my opinion, there is just so little communication in your marriage that it is doomed. Sorry if that is harsh. I suspect neither of you know what the other is thinking - because you are not mind readers. There is alot of assuming what the other is thinking - probably from you both. </p><p></p><p>Even the reason cgfg got to go riding when you thought she needed a scolding. You can not assume he is wrong. He may have a good reason for choosing to allow this. It is not always cut and dry, right or wrong. But, if you are not rationally discussing things it gets out of control and assumptions get made. And more annoyances and anger keep coming. Like right now, you are so angry with him you do not even care if he comes home. This is what lack of communication creates.</p><p></p><p>I am just trying to get you to see the bigger picture here. Forget about cgfg or wee for a minute - your marriage is in trouble. in my humble opinion, of course.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 374690, member: 391"] In my opinion, there is just so little communication in your marriage that it is doomed. Sorry if that is harsh. I suspect neither of you know what the other is thinking - because you are not mind readers. There is alot of assuming what the other is thinking - probably from you both. Even the reason cgfg got to go riding when you thought she needed a scolding. You can not assume he is wrong. He may have a good reason for choosing to allow this. It is not always cut and dry, right or wrong. But, if you are not rationally discussing things it gets out of control and assumptions get made. And more annoyances and anger keep coming. Like right now, you are so angry with him you do not even care if he comes home. This is what lack of communication creates. I am just trying to get you to see the bigger picture here. Forget about cgfg or wee for a minute - your marriage is in trouble. in my humble opinion, of course. [/QUOTE]
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