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<blockquote data-quote="TheWalrus" data-source="post: 678659" data-attributes="member: 19905"><p>She IS on Medicaid AND my insurance. She has A LOT of Rx and I told her a long time ago to file a waiver so they would pay for all of her scrips. Did she? No. Bc why would she when she can have me pay? Or, as therapist pointed out, perhaps they are paid and she is using the one thing that would make me feel the worst as a tactic for money. Pharmacy won't give me info as that would be violation of confidentiality. </p><p></p><p>She knew when exactly what she had to do and what she needed to take care of to care for herself if she was going to refuse our requirements (drug/psychiatric rehab) and not live with us. She has physical issues that need medically addressed that she is putting off/ignoring/making excuses for not dealing with. I cannot drag her by the hair of the head into a doctor's office any more than I can make her get help with her issues.</p><p></p><p>It is literally like watching someone stand on the railroad track as the train comes. You pull them back only to have them jump right back on as the next train comes. She has no sense of fear or consequence; just she wants what she wants when she wants it and there is hell to pay if she doesn't get it - including hurting herself to teach others a lesson. </p><p></p><p>Watching her self-destruction destroys me and I can no longer do it, so I avoid it at all costs. I am a coward.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TheWalrus, post: 678659, member: 19905"] She IS on Medicaid AND my insurance. She has A LOT of Rx and I told her a long time ago to file a waiver so they would pay for all of her scrips. Did she? No. Bc why would she when she can have me pay? Or, as therapist pointed out, perhaps they are paid and she is using the one thing that would make me feel the worst as a tactic for money. Pharmacy won't give me info as that would be violation of confidentiality. She knew when exactly what she had to do and what she needed to take care of to care for herself if she was going to refuse our requirements (drug/psychiatric rehab) and not live with us. She has physical issues that need medically addressed that she is putting off/ignoring/making excuses for not dealing with. I cannot drag her by the hair of the head into a doctor's office any more than I can make her get help with her issues. It is literally like watching someone stand on the railroad track as the train comes. You pull them back only to have them jump right back on as the next train comes. She has no sense of fear or consequence; just she wants what she wants when she wants it and there is hell to pay if she doesn't get it - including hurting herself to teach others a lesson. Watching her self-destruction destroys me and I can no longer do it, so I avoid it at all costs. I am a coward. [/QUOTE]
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