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I spent the morning in tears...
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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 678669" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Just keep saying NO.</p><p>The problem, as I see it, is that they only have one well-developed coping skill, and that's to fall back on you. And they have been polishing that one for quite a number of years.</p><p> </p><p>So, you are going to have to be a rubber wall. No. No. No. No. No. No. and No. And repeat. Until, eventually, they start to develop some of their other coping skills. Many of them DO develop better skills, but it takes time. Don't try to rush the process.</p><p> </p><p>Put on your rhino-skin suit, and ... just keep saying no.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 678669, member: 11791"] Just keep saying NO. The problem, as I see it, is that they only have one well-developed coping skill, and that's to fall back on you. And they have been polishing that one for quite a number of years. So, you are going to have to be a rubber wall. No. No. No. No. No. No. and No. And repeat. Until, eventually, they start to develop some of their other coping skills. Many of them DO develop better skills, but it takes time. Don't try to rush the process. Put on your rhino-skin suit, and ... just keep saying no. [/QUOTE]
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