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<blockquote data-quote="smallworld" data-source="post: 340370" data-attributes="member: 2423"><p>TM, I'm sorry Duckie continues to engage in these behaviors.</p><p> </p><p>I will offer you the same advice I would offer anyone on this board -- I think it's important to figure out what's fueling her oppositional behaviors. In other words, what is the underlying problem? Is she anxious? Is something going on at school? Is she distressed over her grandmother's death? </p><p> </p><p>Even though it feels like it, Duckie is not doing this to be a pill to you. You are her target because she feels safe to express some deep emotional turmoil that's going on within herself that she's too young to express in a more mature way. It's your job to figure out what that turmoil is so she can release it and channel it more appropriately. </p><p> </p><p>A wise mother once told me that our children need our love most when they are acting in their most unlovable ways.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs for your hurting mommy heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="smallworld, post: 340370, member: 2423"] TM, I'm sorry Duckie continues to engage in these behaviors. I will offer you the same advice I would offer anyone on this board -- I think it's important to figure out what's fueling her oppositional behaviors. In other words, what is the underlying problem? Is she anxious? Is something going on at school? Is she distressed over her grandmother's death? Even though it feels like it, Duckie is not doing this to be a pill to you. You are her target because she feels safe to express some deep emotional turmoil that's going on within herself that she's too young to express in a more mature way. It's your job to figure out what that turmoil is so she can release it and channel it more appropriately. A wise mother once told me that our children need our love most when they are acting in their most unlovable ways. Hugs for your hurting mommy heart. [/QUOTE]
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