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I think he must be evil.
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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 83074" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>I don't think the UK is much different than the US in regards to suicide threats. If you kick him out and he threatens suicide, call for an ambulance to take him to the ER. Let them handle that part.</p><p></p><p>Do you think you and your easy child will be able to maintain until your husband returns? If not, is there anyone your eldest can stay with until then?</p><p></p><p>Kicking a child out is hard. It is painful. It is frightening. You feel guilt, fear, shame, anger, pain. It is not something for the faint hearted. At the same time, there are times when it can be the greatest gift we can give our children. Learning to be an adult is no fun but it is something all but the most disabled should learn. There will come a time when there is no mom and dad to lean on.</p><p></p><p>You summed your son up best when you called him a bully. He is. A bully thrives on the fear in others -- it gives the bully a sense of worth. As to being jealous of his younger brother, it makes sense. A truly strong person is complimented when another tries to emulate him. A bully, who is anything but strong, would see any emulation as a threat of someone stealing his "self" from him. A bully cannot share.</p><p></p><p>You are suffering from classic signs of PTSD and need help for this ASAP. I'm sure your easy child is suffering as well. If you think you can hold out until your husband comes home, then try to do it. If not, do what you need to do for your easy child and yourself.</p><p></p><p>HUGS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 83074, member: 3626"] I don't think the UK is much different than the US in regards to suicide threats. If you kick him out and he threatens suicide, call for an ambulance to take him to the ER. Let them handle that part. Do you think you and your easy child will be able to maintain until your husband returns? If not, is there anyone your eldest can stay with until then? Kicking a child out is hard. It is painful. It is frightening. You feel guilt, fear, shame, anger, pain. It is not something for the faint hearted. At the same time, there are times when it can be the greatest gift we can give our children. Learning to be an adult is no fun but it is something all but the most disabled should learn. There will come a time when there is no mom and dad to lean on. You summed your son up best when you called him a bully. He is. A bully thrives on the fear in others -- it gives the bully a sense of worth. As to being jealous of his younger brother, it makes sense. A truly strong person is complimented when another tries to emulate him. A bully, who is anything but strong, would see any emulation as a threat of someone stealing his "self" from him. A bully cannot share. You are suffering from classic signs of PTSD and need help for this ASAP. I'm sure your easy child is suffering as well. If you think you can hold out until your husband comes home, then try to do it. If not, do what you need to do for your easy child and yourself. HUGS [/QUOTE]
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