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I think I am going to be sick....
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 488946" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Time to do some big time diversion.... of your thoughts that is. Do you say the serenity prayer? any kind of meditative thoughts that help to calm and dont forget to breathe. </p><p></p><p>This guy is NOT your 50 yr old sperm donor. You dont know yet.... there are cases where people really do love eachother and have large age differences. He is part of a family where you know one wonderful person, maybe he is really a good guy? </p><p></p><p>I for sure would be very concerned too, but not time to panic yet. (easy to say when I am not the mom watching it, sorry, not trying to be insensitive, just concerned about YOU) There is time to talk to her, but first gather your thoughts and if you can maybe even see a counselor to find out the best way to express your concerns without causing a divide. Fact is she is 18 so not much you can do, I think anyway? </p><p></p><p>I am sure there are some here who have had or are having this situation witha child or even themselves, becasue there was a recent thread when people discussed it. I hope they can come and offer some reassurance. </p><p></p><p>How he treats her is the most important thing. Would it be nicer if they were in a closer stage of life??? for sure. But maybe they are developmentally closer than they are age wise. IF he turns out to be a creep, I would pull out all the stops, just as I would for any aged guy who is a jerk. </p><p></p><p>Let us know how you are doing.... Hugs to you, dont get sick over this. You are worth too much, and you dont deserve to feel sick.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 488946, member: 12886"] Time to do some big time diversion.... of your thoughts that is. Do you say the serenity prayer? any kind of meditative thoughts that help to calm and dont forget to breathe. This guy is NOT your 50 yr old sperm donor. You dont know yet.... there are cases where people really do love eachother and have large age differences. He is part of a family where you know one wonderful person, maybe he is really a good guy? I for sure would be very concerned too, but not time to panic yet. (easy to say when I am not the mom watching it, sorry, not trying to be insensitive, just concerned about YOU) There is time to talk to her, but first gather your thoughts and if you can maybe even see a counselor to find out the best way to express your concerns without causing a divide. Fact is she is 18 so not much you can do, I think anyway? I am sure there are some here who have had or are having this situation witha child or even themselves, becasue there was a recent thread when people discussed it. I hope they can come and offer some reassurance. How he treats her is the most important thing. Would it be nicer if they were in a closer stage of life??? for sure. But maybe they are developmentally closer than they are age wise. IF he turns out to be a creep, I would pull out all the stops, just as I would for any aged guy who is a jerk. Let us know how you are doing.... Hugs to you, dont get sick over this. You are worth too much, and you dont deserve to feel sick. [/QUOTE]
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