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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 488964"><p>You guys are just so awesome. </p><p></p><p>I did think more about this after I talked to her - (she called me and was with him and put me on speaker and I talked to them both). I expressed my concerns and then told her that she is an adult and anything she does is not my business but that I love her so, so much and do not want to see her get hurt. The most important factor is how he treats her and if she is happy. I do need to say that she does not date. She has only had a handful of boyfriends. This is kind of a big deal for her. I don't believe he does drugs, and found out through Google that he doesn't even smoke. </p><p></p><p>She tells me that she has been cooking and baking. She sounds so happy. She tells me that she has changed a lot since being with him and I can tell that she has in some ways - for the better. She says she is learning not to lie anymore - I said well, he knows your parents are alive and well - that is a step! LOL. She doesn't have that "attitude" in her voice anymore. I can't tell you what a huge difference that alone is. She is talking about finally getting her license. All good stuff. </p><p></p><p>I do believe that God puts people in our lives for a reason. I prayed every single night for Him to watch over her. Maybe M was the answer? The age difference is huge. But, she has also lived a lot more life than most 18 year olds. </p><p></p><p>So, I am conflicted. I know she is an adult and there is nothing I can do about it anyway, but she is still and will always be my baby girl....I am just so fearful of how this will all affect her when/if it doesn't work out. </p><p></p><p>I Googled him. He is an insurance broker and yes, he comes from a really good family and everything I have found about him online is good. So, that makes me feel a little better.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 488964"] You guys are just so awesome. I did think more about this after I talked to her - (she called me and was with him and put me on speaker and I talked to them both). I expressed my concerns and then told her that she is an adult and anything she does is not my business but that I love her so, so much and do not want to see her get hurt. The most important factor is how he treats her and if she is happy. I do need to say that she does not date. She has only had a handful of boyfriends. This is kind of a big deal for her. I don't believe he does drugs, and found out through Google that he doesn't even smoke. She tells me that she has been cooking and baking. She sounds so happy. She tells me that she has changed a lot since being with him and I can tell that she has in some ways - for the better. She says she is learning not to lie anymore - I said well, he knows your parents are alive and well - that is a step! LOL. She doesn't have that "attitude" in her voice anymore. I can't tell you what a huge difference that alone is. She is talking about finally getting her license. All good stuff. I do believe that God puts people in our lives for a reason. I prayed every single night for Him to watch over her. Maybe M was the answer? The age difference is huge. But, she has also lived a lot more life than most 18 year olds. So, I am conflicted. I know she is an adult and there is nothing I can do about it anyway, but she is still and will always be my baby girl....I am just so fearful of how this will all affect her when/if it doesn't work out. I Googled him. He is an insurance broker and yes, he comes from a really good family and everything I have found about him online is good. So, that makes me feel a little better. [/QUOTE]
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