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I Think I'm Spinning My Wheels Here
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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 382422" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">I can't really add much more than what Marg and Andy said. I second the book recommendation. Sometimes change has to begin with US, the parents. Otherwise, you get stuck in a tug of war and you end up spinning your wheels, as you've said. Perhaps you could meet with the therapist privately to discuss ways in which you could change your approach without difficult child around at all - take the full hour. I've done that in the past with my difficult child and it was helpful, even if all I did was vent or at least try to understand where the therapist was coming from, understand? </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Sending support and hugs~</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 382422, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]I can't really add much more than what Marg and Andy said. I second the book recommendation. Sometimes change has to begin with US, the parents. Otherwise, you get stuck in a tug of war and you end up spinning your wheels, as you've said. Perhaps you could meet with the therapist privately to discuss ways in which you could change your approach without difficult child around at all - take the full hour. I've done that in the past with my difficult child and it was helpful, even if all I did was vent or at least try to understand where the therapist was coming from, understand? [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Sending support and hugs~[/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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