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I think it's time to cut off all ties to my oldest...but scared to do so...
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<blockquote data-quote="Elsi" data-source="post: 741956" data-attributes="member: 23349"><p>AKAnnie, if what you need is permission, you have it. You are a hero for having gotten through this far. He is an adult now. Your legal and moral obligation to him is done, and the way his life turns out is up to him now. </p><p></p><p>What happens next? You live your life. You find your peace. You protect and care for your younger ones and help them heal. You take steps to protect them, yourself and your property if you feel your eldest potential ongoing risk. </p><p></p><p>Do the memorial if it will help you. Don’t if it just brings up additional anxiety or pain. Write all your darkest most secret thoughts down and burn them if it will help. </p><p></p><p>Whatever happens next your eldest is out of your hands and will not be your fault. His choices are his to make, and no longer your responsibility. </p><p></p><p>If you haven’t already, check out the pinned post on Detachment </p><p></p><p>I know this is really hard and painful. I can only imagine all the emotions that are going through you right now. Hugs to you and your family. I hope you are able to find your peace. Keep posting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsi, post: 741956, member: 23349"] AKAnnie, if what you need is permission, you have it. You are a hero for having gotten through this far. He is an adult now. Your legal and moral obligation to him is done, and the way his life turns out is up to him now. What happens next? You live your life. You find your peace. You protect and care for your younger ones and help them heal. You take steps to protect them, yourself and your property if you feel your eldest potential ongoing risk. Do the memorial if it will help you. Don’t if it just brings up additional anxiety or pain. Write all your darkest most secret thoughts down and burn them if it will help. Whatever happens next your eldest is out of your hands and will not be your fault. His choices are his to make, and no longer your responsibility. If you haven’t already, check out the pinned post on Detachment I know this is really hard and painful. I can only imagine all the emotions that are going through you right now. Hugs to you and your family. I hope you are able to find your peace. Keep posting. [/QUOTE]
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