I think you all need to move over.

Discussion in 'Parent Emeritus' started by Abbey, Sep 28, 2010.

  1. Abbey

    Abbey Spork Queen

    My gosh...I wouldn't have the time nor energy to update, just that J had a gift from bio dad that he completely squashed. I'm disappointed, but not surprised. The boy had a chance.

    Just throw me a few more things.

  2. Abbey

    Abbey Spork Queen

    To clarify...H took J in AGAIN and there was a huge explosive and violent incident three nights ago. Broke up a fist fight between the two with a rather large knife. I never thought I'd be able to do something like that, but I was scared. Haven't seen J since then.

  3. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful

    Oh Abbey, I'm so sorry. What a horrible terrifying position to be put in.

    How are you holding up?

    Saying a prayer for you and sending out huge (((((hugs))))) and a rather wide shoulder to cry on.
  4. KTMom91

    KTMom91 Well-Known Member

    Wow...many, many hugs.

    How are you doing?
  5. DammitJanet

    DammitJanet Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Good heavens! After all you guys have been through with him, why oh why would H do that knowing that J is violent to both of you?

    And you were there to break it up with a knife...????? You werent hurt were you?
  6. ScentofCedar

    ScentofCedar New Member

    That's awful, Abbey. I have been away from the Board for awhile, but I remember that you didn't want J coming to live with you again. Last time I was here, your husband was fooling around with the idea. ARE you alright?

    I'm so sorry this is happening, Abbey.

  7. Estherfromjerusalem

    Estherfromjerusalem Well-Known Member

    Abbey, I'm so sorry. As if you haven't got enough to cope with, without this!

    How brave of you, to stop them with a knife! You've been my heroine for years, but now even more!

    So sorry you're going through this. Hugs.

    Love, Esther
  8. CrazyinVA

    CrazyinVA Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Hugs, Abbey. Please check in when you can, hope everyone is safe..
  9. ThreeShadows

    ThreeShadows Quid me anxia?

    Wow, Abbey! I can't imagine what it must have felt like holding a knife to break up a fight between those you love. You certainly didn't deserve this happening on top of all your own problems.
  10. susiestar

    susiestar Roll With It

    Oh, Abbey!!! Are you OK? Did you get hurt at all, physically? I know you got hurt emotionally. Violence like that is awful. Have you been able to see your therapist or psychiatrist to help you process this?

  11. ScentofCedar

    ScentofCedar New Member

    Just checking in to see how you are, Abbey. Update when you can?

  12. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful

    Yes plz update when you can. You know how we worry.

  13. ScentofCedar

    ScentofCedar New Member

    Hmmm.... Abbey? Holding you and yours in our thought and prayers.