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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 20753" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>Janna,</p><p></p><p>I have walked out of my share of meetings. </p><p></p><p>And only once did it make an impression on anyone. Having said that, while FM is a royal PITA, she stands between you & your difficult child. She has more "pull", if you will, just because of the fact that she has physical custody of difficult child.</p><p></p><p>Honey, this is a game....you have to learn how to play it. Everyone in a meeting of this type has to flaunt their knowledge; express their opinions. In the end, there should be a common agreement on the best interests of difficult child & the rest of your family.</p><p></p><p>Fall apart after the meeting - go home & kick the wall. You need to be a rock with all of these people present. Politely listen to the pontification, respond & hope these people heard what you had to say.</p><p></p><p>In the meantime, difficult child seems to be pitting all of these adults against one another. It may be time to call a meeting with-o difficult child being present. Given his level of aggression & presenting symptoms, he isn't capable of input of his treatment or placement planning. </p><p></p><p>Hope you aren't taking this as a criticism. It's not meant to be. </p><p></p><p>Sending you calming thoughts & hugs. :flower:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 20753, member: 393"] Janna, I have walked out of my share of meetings. And only once did it make an impression on anyone. Having said that, while FM is a royal PITA, she stands between you & your difficult child. She has more "pull", if you will, just because of the fact that she has physical custody of difficult child. Honey, this is a game....you have to learn how to play it. Everyone in a meeting of this type has to flaunt their knowledge; express their opinions. In the end, there should be a common agreement on the best interests of difficult child & the rest of your family. Fall apart after the meeting - go home & kick the wall. You need to be a rock with all of these people present. Politely listen to the pontification, respond & hope these people heard what you had to say. In the meantime, difficult child seems to be pitting all of these adults against one another. It may be time to call a meeting with-o difficult child being present. Given his level of aggression & presenting symptoms, he isn't capable of input of his treatment or placement planning. Hope you aren't taking this as a criticism. It's not meant to be. Sending you calming thoughts & hugs. [img]:flower:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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