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<blockquote data-quote="bigbear11" data-source="post: 526592"><p>Wow... (((HUGS))). So sorry that you are going thru this. It is so very hard to deal with the violence and the stress it puts on your relationship with your husband. We have that issue from time to time. When TRex rages for 2 hrs and is destructive and violent toward us... it is so hard to maintain your "cool". Sometimes both my husband and I are in a good place and (more often) sometimes not. Unfortunately it seems we get angry at each other for losing it with her. Our anger doesn't last too long... we both realize that we are doing the best we can but it just seems like such a waste of energy. </p><p></p><p>It sounds like you are trying to find the answers and getting help. I suppose this is a journey for all of us so that is all you can do. We are in the process of getting TRex into a fetal alcohol clinic to assess what she is really dealing with... not sure we kow yet. Things have been great for the last 2 weeks but you never know. </p><p></p><p>As someone else said... make taking care of yourself (counseling, medications, exercise... whatever) a priority as well. I haven't always and now that I am, it is so much better dealing with everything else (not easy by any stretch but definately better).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bigbear11, post: 526592"] Wow... (((HUGS))). So sorry that you are going thru this. It is so very hard to deal with the violence and the stress it puts on your relationship with your husband. We have that issue from time to time. When TRex rages for 2 hrs and is destructive and violent toward us... it is so hard to maintain your "cool". Sometimes both my husband and I are in a good place and (more often) sometimes not. Unfortunately it seems we get angry at each other for losing it with her. Our anger doesn't last too long... we both realize that we are doing the best we can but it just seems like such a waste of energy. It sounds like you are trying to find the answers and getting help. I suppose this is a journey for all of us so that is all you can do. We are in the process of getting TRex into a fetal alcohol clinic to assess what she is really dealing with... not sure we kow yet. Things have been great for the last 2 weeks but you never know. As someone else said... make taking care of yourself (counseling, medications, exercise... whatever) a priority as well. I haven't always and now that I am, it is so much better dealing with everything else (not easy by any stretch but definately better). [/QUOTE]
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