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Weary for Hope
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My son and I had another rough evening. husband is gone Monday nights, so we are starting a new routine of baking Christmas cookies together or going on a date on Mondays. But tonight he went into a tremendous rage and it was scary for a little while. I even locked him out of the house because I couldn't handle him, but he got in thru the garage - - it was freaky. (as well, he broke a small window on our front door)
Anyhow - we are feeling stuck. difficult child finally saw a psychiatrist for the first time. We were to come back in 3 weeks, once he was able to figure out our son's diagnosis. (he held off on a prescription) We have been trying to book a subsequent appointment 3x, but each time, difficult child has utterly refused to go (I wasn't around - my husband tried to bring him in, but it just didn't work.) The office has a service that will pick up the child - and so we were going to try that (otherwise there is a cost for a phone consultation - anyone ever do those?)
When difficult child met the Dr, the Dr had him draw a picture and then the Dr. proceeded to destroy our son's picture right in front of him. My husband talked to his therapist about that (so glad my husband is finally seeing someone - this journey has torn our guts out) and the therapist said he thought that was a stupid thing for the psychiatrist to do and that we should side with our son and find a new psychiatrist. (It took me a lot of work to find this guy)
What do you guys think? Our son has been seeing the psychotherapist that works for the psychiatrist and likes and trusts her. If we look for a new psychiatrist, that may mean that we may not be able to keep the therapist, because they work together, right? At first I thought my son was freaked out because he knew he would have to start taking medication. I don't want to have to start over with-a new therapist. We were seeing a counselor close to home, but difficult child absolutely refused to see him after a while, and we liked him a lot.
Would you look for a new psychiatrist? Our son said the other guy creeped him out (but he only saw him 1 time for 15 minutes!) This journey to get evaluations by the school and a diagnosis has taken so very long and we keep having set backs.
Thanks,
Anyhow - we are feeling stuck. difficult child finally saw a psychiatrist for the first time. We were to come back in 3 weeks, once he was able to figure out our son's diagnosis. (he held off on a prescription) We have been trying to book a subsequent appointment 3x, but each time, difficult child has utterly refused to go (I wasn't around - my husband tried to bring him in, but it just didn't work.) The office has a service that will pick up the child - and so we were going to try that (otherwise there is a cost for a phone consultation - anyone ever do those?)
When difficult child met the Dr, the Dr had him draw a picture and then the Dr. proceeded to destroy our son's picture right in front of him. My husband talked to his therapist about that (so glad my husband is finally seeing someone - this journey has torn our guts out) and the therapist said he thought that was a stupid thing for the psychiatrist to do and that we should side with our son and find a new psychiatrist. (It took me a lot of work to find this guy)
What do you guys think? Our son has been seeing the psychotherapist that works for the psychiatrist and likes and trusts her. If we look for a new psychiatrist, that may mean that we may not be able to keep the therapist, because they work together, right? At first I thought my son was freaked out because he knew he would have to start taking medication. I don't want to have to start over with-a new therapist. We were seeing a counselor close to home, but difficult child absolutely refused to see him after a while, and we liked him a lot.
Would you look for a new psychiatrist? Our son said the other guy creeped him out (but he only saw him 1 time for 15 minutes!) This journey to get evaluations by the school and a diagnosis has taken so very long and we keep having set backs.
Thanks,