If I locate a neuropsychologist, what exactly do I say to them when I make the call? Do I tell them that my difficult child has a diagnosis? I mean I don't want to get "blown off" because her psychiatrist, pediatrician and clinical psychologist are not the referring people. I think that's been part of my problem. "You're just the (uneducated, uniformed) mom, she has a diagnosis, so why are you calling us, lady?" How do I do this so that I can be taken seriously and get an appointment?