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If I thought 35 could be trying before, it's going to be 100% worse now...
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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 589849" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>Funny that you should write about this. The needing to take the pressure off my mother is a big reason why I am here between tk and my husband I was calling my mom three times a day or more as I have no friends here and my husband and I are not able to communicate right now very well. My mom doesn't do well with me venting in the past but she has been a towering pillar of support through this crisis. And I've been able to cut the calls down to once a day.</p><p></p><p>Thank god for mothers.</p><p></p><p>Now some constructive things you can suggest, </p><p>I assume he has Internet maybe there is a support forum for people going through custody battles as some custody cases last for years it's completely possible. </p><p></p><p>Can always use a tumbr or opendiary.com this is a good recourse to use because it documents thoughts he is having to communicate to his lawyer or document what the ex did that he may forget by the time it goes to court. Also if he gets on one of those things and releases the anxiety he will have less to bring to you. Not saying that he might not still need to talk and lets face it you will probably want to know about things when he has something real to say. </p><p></p><p>Just my idea if you present the tumblr as something useful he could do to document his downward spiral with his relationship with the ex he might actually do it. I would not present it as an idea for a diary per se because men have a problem accepting that they need to share their feelings sometimes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 589849, member: 16184"] Funny that you should write about this. The needing to take the pressure off my mother is a big reason why I am here between tk and my husband I was calling my mom three times a day or more as I have no friends here and my husband and I are not able to communicate right now very well. My mom doesn't do well with me venting in the past but she has been a towering pillar of support through this crisis. And I've been able to cut the calls down to once a day. Thank god for mothers. Now some constructive things you can suggest, I assume he has Internet maybe there is a support forum for people going through custody battles as some custody cases last for years it's completely possible. Can always use a tumbr or opendiary.com this is a good recourse to use because it documents thoughts he is having to communicate to his lawyer or document what the ex did that he may forget by the time it goes to court. Also if he gets on one of those things and releases the anxiety he will have less to bring to you. Not saying that he might not still need to talk and lets face it you will probably want to know about things when he has something real to say. Just my idea if you present the tumblr as something useful he could do to document his downward spiral with his relationship with the ex he might actually do it. I would not present it as an idea for a diary per se because men have a problem accepting that they need to share their feelings sometimes. [/QUOTE]
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