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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 273906" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>He is out-of-control. If you are seeing anger/danger in his eyes and feeling afraid, take him to the hospital. The docs should also pick up on that behavior. Our kids do not have to be throwing physical tantrums to be out-of-control. He is fighting this so hard.</p><p> </p><p>Have you ever tried to work with him while he is like this? I think he hates this as much as you do. If you feel comfortable, you can start with, "Honey, I can see you do not want to feel angry. You are doing a good job trying to control it. We need to let psychiatrist know that the medications are making you feel like this. Can you help me write up a note about what is going on? Let's start with supper - why do you think eating will make your stomache rip? Let's write everything down to give to the psychiatrist. I know you hate the way you feel right now. I want to help you."</p><p> </p><p>Then go onto what happened when he took the fan apart. Stay very calm.</p><p> </p><p>If talking does not help, ask him what he needs to help the anger go away. Assure him it is a good thing that he has identified this feeling because now he can face it. Suggest some self relaxation techniques such as closing your eyes and slowly breathing in and out.</p><p> </p><p>If you are feeling fear within yourself, that is your mommy bear instincts telling you that baby bear is in danger. Follow your guts.</p><p> </p><p>Did husband get home? What is happening now?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 273906, member: 5096"] He is out-of-control. If you are seeing anger/danger in his eyes and feeling afraid, take him to the hospital. The docs should also pick up on that behavior. Our kids do not have to be throwing physical tantrums to be out-of-control. He is fighting this so hard. Have you ever tried to work with him while he is like this? I think he hates this as much as you do. If you feel comfortable, you can start with, "Honey, I can see you do not want to feel angry. You are doing a good job trying to control it. We need to let psychiatrist know that the medications are making you feel like this. Can you help me write up a note about what is going on? Let's start with supper - why do you think eating will make your stomache rip? Let's write everything down to give to the psychiatrist. I know you hate the way you feel right now. I want to help you." Then go onto what happened when he took the fan apart. Stay very calm. If talking does not help, ask him what he needs to help the anger go away. Assure him it is a good thing that he has identified this feeling because now he can face it. Suggest some self relaxation techniques such as closing your eyes and slowly breathing in and out. If you are feeling fear within yourself, that is your mommy bear instincts telling you that baby bear is in danger. Follow your guts. Did husband get home? What is happening now? [/QUOTE]
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