Speed bump Janet, speed bump!!!
Wow Abs....I had a couple of guesses in mind as to why you would need strength. Not pressing for details, you'll spill when you're ready, but I'm thinking one of my guesses was right. Do you still have my number? Never mind, I'll pm you. Anyhoo....call if you want. We can talk about this or talk about whatever makes us laugh. Or not. Up to you.
HUGS.