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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 257303" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thank you JLady- no offense taken whatsoever.</p><p></p><p>PS- Marcie Mac- you are exactlty coorect about the system. To me, it stands to reason that I should be able to discuss these things with these people, or at least the gal. But, you see where that got things. Heck- the only thing these people have left to tell difficult child is that I deserved to have a knife held at my throat. Mind you- I was not (and have never) abused my son sexually, physically, etc. And to me, that would be the ONLY way to justify a kid doing this to his mother- unless she was letting someone else abuse him, and that has NEVER happened either. And they KNOW these things have not happened (no abuse). It has never been accused by anyone, even by difficult child, and NO psychiatrist or therapist has ever said they thought something like that was involved, much less dss, school, or even PO.</p><p></p><p>Re the psychiatric evaluation- I have to wait until my court date to address that. I'm already seeing a therapist, although I'll probably have to switch. I'll do a thorough psychiatric assessment and agree to a treatment as it pertains to difficult child. I won't agree to a diagnosis. treatment plan and medications based ONLY on one personality test alone- no history or interview. And, I'm not agreeing to anything that has nothing at all to do with difficult child or parenting. My therapist has suggested not allowing difficult child to come home until I know I'm safe and to remind myself that it is up to the system to make sure difficult child is placed in a safe place if he's not home. Given how much I resent this entire situation because it came about from difficult child breaking the law, not me, I think my therapist has a point. But I am willing to try to work something out. Still, I have drawn some lines and have to stick to them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 257303, member: 3699"] Thank you JLady- no offense taken whatsoever. PS- Marcie Mac- you are exactlty coorect about the system. To me, it stands to reason that I should be able to discuss these things with these people, or at least the gal. But, you see where that got things. Heck- the only thing these people have left to tell difficult child is that I deserved to have a knife held at my throat. Mind you- I was not (and have never) abused my son sexually, physically, etc. And to me, that would be the ONLY way to justify a kid doing this to his mother- unless she was letting someone else abuse him, and that has NEVER happened either. And they KNOW these things have not happened (no abuse). It has never been accused by anyone, even by difficult child, and NO psychiatrist or therapist has ever said they thought something like that was involved, much less dss, school, or even PO. Re the psychiatric evaluation- I have to wait until my court date to address that. I'm already seeing a therapist, although I'll probably have to switch. I'll do a thorough psychiatric assessment and agree to a treatment as it pertains to difficult child. I won't agree to a diagnosis. treatment plan and medications based ONLY on one personality test alone- no history or interview. And, I'm not agreeing to anything that has nothing at all to do with difficult child or parenting. My therapist has suggested not allowing difficult child to come home until I know I'm safe and to remind myself that it is up to the system to make sure difficult child is placed in a safe place if he's not home. Given how much I resent this entire situation because it came about from difficult child breaking the law, not me, I think my therapist has a point. But I am willing to try to work something out. Still, I have drawn some lines and have to stick to them. [/QUOTE]
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