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<blockquote data-quote="eekysign" data-source="post: 257418" data-attributes="member: 6479"><p>This is where I get confused again, and maybe that's why the PO/court system is too? You say that there is MAJOR reason to worry that your son will be molested/raped/emotionally messed-with/whatever if he goes to live with your brother. But then you say that you never turned your back on him, and that you never taught your son that he wasn't "good people". </p><p></p><p>I can see why the legal system might be confused by that. Generally speaking, if you think someone is the type of person to molest children, you warn your kids to stay away from them. Instead, you've told us you didn't warn your son about him (never taught him to "not love" his uncle), you let him have contact with your young child (didn't you tell us your brother innocently/not-so-innocently kissed him while making faces at you at some family gathering?), and you didn't turn your back on him (gay, straight, or otherwise, child-molesters either need to agree to help, or need to be avoided).</p><p></p><p>I'm NOT saying <u>any</u> of this is your fault. But in case you have to defend against your difficult child being sent to your bro again, maybe you need to sit down and analyze why all of these factors, plus a lack of legal proof, makes you look less-than-truthful to some people who don't know your specific situation. It'll help you address the concerns that the court might have with your beliefs---it'll sure as heck make you look less "crazy" to them. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="eekysign, post: 257418, member: 6479"] This is where I get confused again, and maybe that's why the PO/court system is too? You say that there is MAJOR reason to worry that your son will be molested/raped/emotionally messed-with/whatever if he goes to live with your brother. But then you say that you never turned your back on him, and that you never taught your son that he wasn't "good people". I can see why the legal system might be confused by that. Generally speaking, if you think someone is the type of person to molest children, you warn your kids to stay away from them. Instead, you've told us you didn't warn your son about him (never taught him to "not love" his uncle), you let him have contact with your young child (didn't you tell us your brother innocently/not-so-innocently kissed him while making faces at you at some family gathering?), and you didn't turn your back on him (gay, straight, or otherwise, child-molesters either need to agree to help, or need to be avoided). I'm NOT saying [U]any[/U] of this is your fault. But in case you have to defend against your difficult child being sent to your bro again, maybe you need to sit down and analyze why all of these factors, plus a lack of legal proof, makes you look less-than-truthful to some people who don't know your specific situation. It'll help you address the concerns that the court might have with your beliefs---it'll sure as heck make you look less "crazy" to them. :raspberry-tounge: [/QUOTE]
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