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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 257440" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>K, here's my .02.</p><p>***</p><p>First, I'd go along with option #1 for now. You can always change your mind as things get closer. I would do my darnedest to get a message to difficult child, tho, that while you are working towards allowing him to come home, if he so much as allows a devious twinkle in his eye that makes you wonder what he's thinking, he WILL go live with bro, and you won't stop it. No, you don't want him to live with bro. But he CAN'T live with you if he intends to harm you. That's not a "want" thing, that's a CAN'T thing.</p><p>***</p><p>Second, do you know anyone who lives relatively near bro? Can you yourself go there and "catch" some of his parties on film (don't use digital)? Past partners who would make a statement about what goes on? If you can get some evidence to back up what you're saying about the parties, etc, you may have a chance to have bro taken out of this picture. And you aren't against other placement - you're just against placement with HIM.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 257440, member: 1848"] K, here's my .02. *** First, I'd go along with option #1 for now. You can always change your mind as things get closer. I would do my darnedest to get a message to difficult child, tho, that while you are working towards allowing him to come home, if he so much as allows a devious twinkle in his eye that makes you wonder what he's thinking, he WILL go live with bro, and you won't stop it. No, you don't want him to live with bro. But he CAN'T live with you if he intends to harm you. That's not a "want" thing, that's a CAN'T thing. *** Second, do you know anyone who lives relatively near bro? Can you yourself go there and "catch" some of his parties on film (don't use digital)? Past partners who would make a statement about what goes on? If you can get some evidence to back up what you're saying about the parties, etc, you may have a chance to have bro taken out of this picture. And you aren't against other placement - you're just against placement with HIM. [/QUOTE]
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