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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 257445" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>K,</p><p>After giving this a ton of thought..........my suggestion would be to completely let this situation go. This is killing you mentally, and you need to let go. I would tell all the legal counsel that you cannot have difficult child in your house, period. Therefore if they feel it is in difficult children best interest to let him go live with his Uncle, then they can. I would present to them all of the things you know about your brother, and then let it go. My guess is that CPS will not find your brothers house a suitable living place. And even if they do, difficult child will knock the living cr@p out of your brother if he touches him.</p><p></p><p>K, I am of the opinion that you really need to let go and start to detach from this. You <em>know</em> he cannot come home. You <strong><em>know</em></strong> that. So let the courts decide the best living situation for him. They are obilgated to make his living situation a safe one. If they are making you jump through rings of fire - imagine what they will do to the Uncle.</p><p></p><p>Let this go - and try to find some peace here. Move from your home that is battered to hell, and try to find <em>you </em>again. You deserve and need this, if not for you, for difficult child.</p><p>Many hugs and prayers.</p><p>Steely</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 257445, member: 3301"] K, After giving this a ton of thought..........my suggestion would be to completely let this situation go. This is killing you mentally, and you need to let go. I would tell all the legal counsel that you cannot have difficult child in your house, period. Therefore if they feel it is in difficult children best interest to let him go live with his Uncle, then they can. I would present to them all of the things you know about your brother, and then let it go. My guess is that CPS will not find your brothers house a suitable living place. And even if they do, difficult child will knock the living cr@p out of your brother if he touches him. K, I am of the opinion that you really need to let go and start to detach from this. You [I]know[/I] he cannot come home. You [B][I]know[/I][/B] that. So let the courts decide the best living situation for him. They are obilgated to make his living situation a safe one. If they are making you jump through rings of fire - imagine what they will do to the Uncle. Let this go - and try to find some peace here. Move from your home that is battered to hell, and try to find [I]you [/I]again. You deserve and need this, if not for you, for difficult child. Many hugs and prayers. Steely [/QUOTE]
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