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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 628969" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thanks again, Cedar.</p><p></p><p>I don't miss my sister. She isn't the person who I thought my sister was. Or I should say deluded myself into thinking she was.</p><p></p><p>I don't miss my family. They were a lie and fortunately, although they caused me grief, I did not spend much time with them.</p><p></p><p>If anyone knows of a place besides wordpress to free blog, let me know <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I already have a blog for wordpress and it won't let me start a new one.</p><p></p><p>Thank you again, Cedar. You always understand. I have a feelihng that most here do. Most of us have lived a lie in one way or another, even if it was about our adult children and who they were.</p><p></p><p>Fortunately, I did not live a lie with 36 as he was who he is at a very young age. And, frankly, as awful as he can be when under stress, I know he loves me and he has defended me to many people. One thing about 36...although he inherited many horrible traits of my loonybin family of origin, he never knew them as my father was totally disinterested in all of us and even less so his grandchildren (he has never seen his great grandchild). So he was never there. My mother hated me by the time Julie was eight and never saw the boys much before then. My sister is a nobody to my kids...they don't like how s he treats me and refer to her as "your sister" or "the dork."</p><p></p><p>I guess I'm lucky that my kids were spared their nasty games. My grandmother tried them, as I told you, but I wouldn't play. Now I'm done playing with Sis. Funny thing is...</p><p></p><p>I hated her boyfriend because he treats her like garbage. Yet she is so nutty about him she can't let him go. I believe in karma. Although I don't wish bad relationships on anybody, I feel he is her karma. The way she cries and carries on when he meanly acts like she is less important to him than gum on his shoe is how I feel when she cuts ME out.</p><p></p><p>The karma is probably lost on her.</p><p></p><p>Maybe it's not karma at all. Maybe it's her dysfunction to love a man who is so abusive.</p><p></p><p>It is her problem now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 628969, member: 1550"] Thanks again, Cedar. I don't miss my sister. She isn't the person who I thought my sister was. Or I should say deluded myself into thinking she was. I don't miss my family. They were a lie and fortunately, although they caused me grief, I did not spend much time with them. If anyone knows of a place besides wordpress to free blog, let me know :) I already have a blog for wordpress and it won't let me start a new one. Thank you again, Cedar. You always understand. I have a feelihng that most here do. Most of us have lived a lie in one way or another, even if it was about our adult children and who they were. Fortunately, I did not live a lie with 36 as he was who he is at a very young age. And, frankly, as awful as he can be when under stress, I know he loves me and he has defended me to many people. One thing about 36...although he inherited many horrible traits of my loonybin family of origin, he never knew them as my father was totally disinterested in all of us and even less so his grandchildren (he has never seen his great grandchild). So he was never there. My mother hated me by the time Julie was eight and never saw the boys much before then. My sister is a nobody to my kids...they don't like how s he treats me and refer to her as "your sister" or "the dork." I guess I'm lucky that my kids were spared their nasty games. My grandmother tried them, as I told you, but I wouldn't play. Now I'm done playing with Sis. Funny thing is... I hated her boyfriend because he treats her like garbage. Yet she is so nutty about him she can't let him go. I believe in karma. Although I don't wish bad relationships on anybody, I feel he is her karma. The way she cries and carries on when he meanly acts like she is less important to him than gum on his shoe is how I feel when she cuts ME out. The karma is probably lost on her. Maybe it's not karma at all. Maybe it's her dysfunction to love a man who is so abusive. It is her problem now. [/QUOTE]
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