I don't know what happened between husband and L last night but it wasn't good. It ended with L scratching husband on the belly, me intervening and keeping L in his room. L took a swipe at me for keeping his DS until he was calm and we could talk. He calmed down in his spot but not before husband started screaming at me about ruining the kids then he went to the front door and told me that I have nowhere to go and to make sure he was leaving in the van. Then L came and dumped a glass of water on him and yelled stop screaming. You're not supposed to scream. We weren't home when he came home and neither were the dogs. Gone all night. husband didn't call or look for us. Today he says that he wants us and will accept what's wrong with L and do the work. How long that will last, I don't know. I just want to sit and cry.