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I'm afraid I had false hopes, yet again
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 587153" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Having a baby when you can't raise one and not thinking seriously about what is best for the baby (adoption?) is a difficult child decision right off the bat. These two aren't going to grow up just because they had a baby. Let's face it, even animals can make babies. It's not a mature thing to do. Immature drug users do not grow up because they have a baby. The baby is usually the victim of two very inept parents who often cry to Mom and Dad for mommy and even a home because they can't deal with the baby.</p><p></p><p>Your son is going to have to do a lot of serious work on himself before he grows up and it's not hard work to make a baby. I feel badly for the baby, and not surprised that your son has not changed. I don't mean that in an accusatory way. I just mean....par for the course with these "young adults." Not just YOUR son, all of t hem who are like him.</p><p></p><p>This doesn't mean he will never grow up, but right now he is far from it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 587153, member: 1550"] Having a baby when you can't raise one and not thinking seriously about what is best for the baby (adoption?) is a difficult child decision right off the bat. These two aren't going to grow up just because they had a baby. Let's face it, even animals can make babies. It's not a mature thing to do. Immature drug users do not grow up because they have a baby. The baby is usually the victim of two very inept parents who often cry to Mom and Dad for mommy and even a home because they can't deal with the baby. Your son is going to have to do a lot of serious work on himself before he grows up and it's not hard work to make a baby. I feel badly for the baby, and not surprised that your son has not changed. I don't mean that in an accusatory way. I just mean....par for the course with these "young adults." Not just YOUR son, all of t hem who are like him. This doesn't mean he will never grow up, but right now he is far from it. [/QUOTE]
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