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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 694245" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Copa of course you are exhausted. This is the type of tired that goes to your very bones and isn't alleviated by sleep.</p><p></p><p>There is no amount of new wiring or other tactics by you that is going to change what he decides to do.</p><p></p><p>Don't put that on yourself. That again is thinking we can control or fix their worlds.</p><p></p><p>I could not fathom the bottoms that had to happen for my son. And they had to happen for him because no number of actions I tried to take for 10 years stopped the future he created and chose.</p><p></p><p>As much as you can, let go. Just open your arms to the universe and give him up. To the forest. To the drug dealer down the street. To the hot house.</p><p></p><p>I think that is where the real exhaustion comes from. Trying to intervene. Trying to be one step ahead with it all.</p><p></p><p>I am so so glad you are working right now. Working hard. This is so good for you however imperfect the job (as is any job is) and it is good for him.</p><p></p><p>You are doing so well Copa. I hope you can claim that and see your own journey back to wholeness for the great progress that it is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 694245, member: 17542"] Copa of course you are exhausted. This is the type of tired that goes to your very bones and isn't alleviated by sleep. There is no amount of new wiring or other tactics by you that is going to change what he decides to do. Don't put that on yourself. That again is thinking we can control or fix their worlds. I could not fathom the bottoms that had to happen for my son. And they had to happen for him because no number of actions I tried to take for 10 years stopped the future he created and chose. As much as you can, let go. Just open your arms to the universe and give him up. To the forest. To the drug dealer down the street. To the hot house. I think that is where the real exhaustion comes from. Trying to intervene. Trying to be one step ahead with it all. I am so so glad you are working right now. Working hard. This is so good for you however imperfect the job (as is any job is) and it is good for him. You are doing so well Copa. I hope you can claim that and see your own journey back to wholeness for the great progress that it is. [/QUOTE]
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