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I'm hurting this evening. A lot. Does this ever stop?
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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 670374" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Oh Penny I am so sorry. I can hear your love for your son and your grandson. I wish you could make all good things happen for these three people, but you know the truth is you can't fix or control the outcomes of adults who are legally responsible. You just can't.</p><p></p><p>If you can, Penny, please clear your head and work to simplify your role here. Keep your options as simple as possible. Like call CPS. Or seek legal aid for your son so he has representation. Document her behavior as Tanya suggested. Or encourage your son to go and sit down with the police and document what is happening. Keep it simple for yourself because you can't save all of these people or really, any of them, and you will drive yourself crazy if you try to.</p><p></p><p>Be kind to yourself right now. Step back and don't react to the next thing that happens. Wait. Let some time pass, even a few hours, before you respond.</p><p></p><p>I can imagine how hard this must be when there is an innocent baby at risk. You may need to act to ensure his safety. That is paramount. </p><p></p><p>We care about you. Please keep sharing with us. I am so sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 670374, member: 17542"] Oh Penny I am so sorry. I can hear your love for your son and your grandson. I wish you could make all good things happen for these three people, but you know the truth is you can't fix or control the outcomes of adults who are legally responsible. You just can't. If you can, Penny, please clear your head and work to simplify your role here. Keep your options as simple as possible. Like call CPS. Or seek legal aid for your son so he has representation. Document her behavior as Tanya suggested. Or encourage your son to go and sit down with the police and document what is happening. Keep it simple for yourself because you can't save all of these people or really, any of them, and you will drive yourself crazy if you try to. Be kind to yourself right now. Step back and don't react to the next thing that happens. Wait. Let some time pass, even a few hours, before you respond. I can imagine how hard this must be when there is an innocent baby at risk. You may need to act to ensure his safety. That is paramount. We care about you. Please keep sharing with us. I am so sorry. [/QUOTE]
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