Try going to the domestic violence shelter. They will help no questions asked. What you experienced is domestic violence, and her father is continuing to hurt her any way he can by telling her he wants nothing to do with her.
The school should also have some resources. By no questions asked, I mean financial ones, they may report the sexual abuse to dhs, that may open more doors for you. If it has already been reported, take the paperwork you got at the end of it to the DV shelter.
Here it is called Family Services, but if you call a hotline they will connect you with a local shelter.
Also, does your employer have an Employee Assistance Plan? Many larger companies do, and they can be very helpful in directing you after they see you. I have found that many people do not know this benefit exists. It is worth checking for. In one job I had up to 10 visits per issue. When I found the therapist was excellent, I just kept calling with a different facet of our problems. HE encouraged it.
What we have now is a phone # that will give us referrals to tdocs. They pay for the first 3 visits per problem, and we can have an unlimited number of problems. I don't like them as much, they give me the same 3 numbers here in town. We have already been told by each of these tdocs that they don't want to deal with us in any way. At least they were up front!
Anyway, check out these options. Hugs, hon. Remember to breathe.
Susie