I have a 12 year old son, who was dx'd with BP and ADHD years ago. We have been through tons of med changes and have had many ups and downs (more downs then ups) We'd tried every form of discipline; time outs, spanking, taking away his electronics, grounding from friends, along with patience and understanding, but nothing works. The whole family suffers from his antics, and it's tearing us apart. Everyone is resentful for what he is putting us through. We love him so much and he continues to hurt us so bad. Now, I just don't want to be in the same room with him. I feel like the worst parent ever!!!!!