Hi there. This is my first time posting here, as a matter of fact it's my first time coming across a support group like this. And I really think I need it! Here's my storey; My husband and I have 6 year old twin boys....one of whom has just been diagnosed with oppositional defiance disorder. While I feel relieved to finally have a "name" behind his actions I still am no closer to knowing how to deal with him. He is so negative and miserable. They have a wonderful life, are well taken care of, and bathed in love. My husband and I are both always telling them how much we love them and how proud we are of them. Dominick can be really nasty and mean and miserable It's so hard. My husband and I both take time to spend with him one on one and nothing works. Does anyone have any ideas about disapline for bad behavior? I'd love to know what works for you! I really appreciate it!