threeturkeez
New Member
I joined this site because I need a place to put my emtions. Mostly ANGER, FRUSTRATION and WEARINESS. There's so much I could type right now but I'm just so overwhelmed at where to start that I just want to hit delete and go on to bed. I hate that he makes me feel this way. He's almost 12 years old and his issues essentially control our household, control what we can do and when and how and I'm really sick of it. Most days I'm to the point where I pray we win the lotto so we can just pay for residential out of pocket. Our insurance won't pay because there isn't enough documentation that he needs it, e.g. ER visits, etc, but the psychiatrist and his last therapist have both put in writing that it's the best place for him. I hate that they get to decide what's best for our family. They get to say that it's not worth the money for my other 2 children to not have to deal with this person 24 hours a day, all summer long, or be afraid of him or what he'll do or tell mommy regularly that they wish we could do something fun today but they know it's because "D" is misbehaving. My 5yo came up to me today and said, "I know a way to make D not do those bad things no more momma. We can just tell him that he's not supposed to do those things and then he can not do them and just be good." Poor little dude, he didn't understand that Mommy and Daddy already tell him those things but he doesn't care, he breaks every rule we have, pretty much every day, and that there's nothing Mommy or Daddy can do to fix it. I shouldn't have to explain these things to a 5yo child. I shouldn't have to hide my tears from him and his sister after an "episode" with D. And although I struggle with depression in general, D's antics are SEVERELY affecting me, which in turn affects my husband and the other 2 kids. It's not fair to any of them. Why do we use that term difficult child anyway - he certainly doesn't feel like a gift most days. I dunno where I'm going with this post. Nice intro huh?
Thanks for letting me vent and ramble....
Thanks for letting me vent and ramble....