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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 653742" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Welcome Isla,</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. I'm glad you found this forum, you will find support, comfort and years of wisdom from those of us who have been there.</p><p></p><p>It would be helpful if you would fill in your signature as you can give a little more info about yourself.</p><p></p><p>How old is your granddaughter? Does your granddaughter stay with you on a regular basis? Are you wanting to have custody of your granddaughter?</p><p></p><p>Since the father is a lawyer you need to be very careful about you proceed. You may want to consult with an attorney that practices family law. One thing that is key is to make sure you document everything. Start a journal and write down everything, make sure to put the date and time. If they send text messages to you make sure you do not delete them, same with voice mail.</p><p></p><p>It's good that you have detached from your daughter so you understand that we have no control over how others live their lives. The same goes for her husband. What is your relationship with your son in-law like, are you able to talk to him?</p><p></p><p>It's so hard when children get caught in the middle of the drama and chaos. I would suggest that you spend as much time as you can with your granddaughter and confirm to her how much you love her and that you are always there for her.</p><p></p><p>Again, the more information you can share without giving away identities the better.</p><p></p><p>Others will come along and share their thoughts.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you for your hurting heart. You are not alone, we are here and we care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 653742, member: 18516"] Welcome Isla, I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. I'm glad you found this forum, you will find support, comfort and years of wisdom from those of us who have been there. It would be helpful if you would fill in your signature as you can give a little more info about yourself. How old is your granddaughter? Does your granddaughter stay with you on a regular basis? Are you wanting to have custody of your granddaughter? Since the father is a lawyer you need to be very careful about you proceed. You may want to consult with an attorney that practices family law. One thing that is key is to make sure you document everything. Start a journal and write down everything, make sure to put the date and time. If they send text messages to you make sure you do not delete them, same with voice mail. It's good that you have detached from your daughter so you understand that we have no control over how others live their lives. The same goes for her husband. What is your relationship with your son in-law like, are you able to talk to him? It's so hard when children get caught in the middle of the drama and chaos. I would suggest that you spend as much time as you can with your granddaughter and confirm to her how much you love her and that you are always there for her. Again, the more information you can share without giving away identities the better. Others will come along and share their thoughts. ((HUGS)) to you for your hurting heart. You are not alone, we are here and we care. [/QUOTE]
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