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I'm not a social worker... but I play one on TV!!! (I'm losing my mind)
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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 367857" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>I'm sorry, Bean. Does she have a key to your house? I would make sure she is on the doorstep and locked out to enforce that "be out of the house all day" rule. quite honestly, though, I think she may end up breaking in, since she didn't hesitate to do so at your parents' house. </p><p></p><p>If she's already, day 1, making zero effort to comply with the rules you laid down, I think you may have some tough decisions on your future. I feel for you, I really do. I know it's not easy, in fact, it feels impossible, but she's an adult. I've said it before, but I believe that many of these kids are remarkably resilient and resourceful once they are forced to be responsible for themselves. It's not pretty to watch, but it's possible. </p><p></p><p>You need to take your life and your household back. You, and your husband and your other kids, deserve that.</p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 367857, member: 1157"] I'm sorry, Bean. Does she have a key to your house? I would make sure she is on the doorstep and locked out to enforce that "be out of the house all day" rule. quite honestly, though, I think she may end up breaking in, since she didn't hesitate to do so at your parents' house. If she's already, day 1, making zero effort to comply with the rules you laid down, I think you may have some tough decisions on your future. I feel for you, I really do. I know it's not easy, in fact, it feels impossible, but she's an adult. I've said it before, but I believe that many of these kids are remarkably resilient and resourceful once they are forced to be responsible for themselves. It's not pretty to watch, but it's possible. You need to take your life and your household back. You, and your husband and your other kids, deserve that. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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